Napa with the Girls – 2 Day Bachelorette Party Itinerary

A short but unforgettable itinerary for a stylish girls trip or bachelorette celebration in wine country

Only have two days for your Napa Valley girls trip or bachelorette party? No problem. This 2-day itinerary delivers all the sparkle, wine, relaxation, and Instagram-worthy moments—without the stress of overbooking. Ideal for groups of any size, this weekend getaway is packed with tasting rooms, great food, and just the right amount of downtime.

Day One: Kick Things Off in Style

Brunch, bubbles, and a toast to the weekend ahead.

Morning: Arrival + Champagne Brunch 

Drive time from San Francisco: 1 hr 20 min
Start your Napa girls weekend with a toast. Arrive mid-to-late morning and head to one of Napa’s top brunch spots.

Browse Our Napa Valley Brunch Guide for options that are perfect for groups. Top picks include:

Boon Fly Café – Trendy and lively with champagne flights

Grace’s Table – Cozy downtown option with big flavors

Midday: Downtown Napa Stroll or Hotel Check-In 

After brunch, walk through Oxbow Public Market, explore downtown boutiques, or check in and relax at your hotel.

Browse Top Hotels in Napa Valley for Groups for great places to stay.

Afternoon: Wine Tasting at Domaine Carneros or Ashes & Diamonds

Time: 2:30–4:00pm
Choose a glamorous, group-friendly tasting experience:

• Domaine Carneros – Sparkling wines in a French château setting

Ashes & Diamonds – Mid-century vibes with minimal-intervention wines

Evening: Dinner & Rooftop Drinks

Time: 6:30–Late
Dress up for dinner and drinks:

RH Yountville – Gorgeous design and upscale fare

Zuzu – Tapas, sangria, and fun vibes

Sky & Vine Rooftop Bar – Sunset cocktails and city views

Day Two: Wine, Wellness & One Last Toast

A morning of spa or shopping, followed by a signature wine tasting and a stylish send-off.

Morning Option 1: Spa Morning in Calistoga

Time: 9:30–11:30am 
Drive time from Napa: ~40 minutes
Relax together with mineral pools or massages at:

• Indian Springs Resort

Solage Resort & Spa

Morning Option 2: Boutique Shopping + Coffee in St. Helena 

Enjoy a slower start with lattes from Model Bakery and stroll St. Helena’s charming shops for group souvenirs and treats.

Afternoon: Tasting at O’Brien Estate Winery

Time: 1:00–2:30pm
Cap off your bachelorette wine weekend in Napa with a scenic, private-feeling tasting at O’Brien Estate Winery. Ranked the #1 winery in Napa Valley by U.S. News & World Report, it offers vineyard views, intimate seating, and memorable wines—perfect for one last group cheers.

Book your tasting in advance

Insider tip: Bring your phones—this is a perfect final photo op.

Late Lunch or Light Fare Before Departure 

Time: 3:00–4:00pm
Grab food before hitting the road:

Gott’s Roadside – Classic Napa favorite for burgers and shakes

Compline Wine Bar – Light bites and strong wine list

Oxbow Public Market – Easy, shareable options for everyone

Departure

Drive time back to San Francisco: 1 hr 20 min 
Head home refreshed, full of stories, and maybe a few bottles of wine richer.

Quick Links for Planning Your Napa Bachelorette Weekend

Best Wineries for Groups in Napa
Top Lodging for Bachelorette Groups
Where to Eat in Napa for Celebrations
Spa & Relaxation Guide for Napa Valley